What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
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3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
What are some reasons why men may not want to date a woman who can pay her own bills?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
*** Questions About Me ***
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
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Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Is there an MBTI personality that is more or less likely to handle stress?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
52~ What are your hobbies?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
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43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
The Ice Breaker Questions
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Would you read them together?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
How old are you? Male or Female?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Do you think this brought you closer together?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
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44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Any that are a turn off?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Any that are a turn off?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Please share Did you stop?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
39~ What are your love languages?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
If yes, what?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
29- How superstitious are you?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
If you win, what will you make them do?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
What is your favorite position? Why?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
*** Random Questions ***
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Nothing too Serious
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
Family Relation Age Play
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?